What is B’yachad?
B’yachad (together) is Or Shalom’s Bar/Bat/Simchat Mitzvah program with interactive study for youth and their parents taught by singer-songwriter Harriet Frost with Rabbi Hannah Dresner. At Or Shalom, Bar/Bat/Simchat Mitzvah preparation begins a year or more before our youth are called to the Torah for their first Aliyah. Ours is an intergenerational, multi-modality class meeting on Sunday afternoons during the school year and includes special participation on some holidays and Shabbatot. Our program will include a social action initiative.
Sunday classes take place from 3 to 5 p.m.
Program Dates: Sept. 23 (Sukkot), Oct. 14, Oct. 27, Nov. 9 (Shabbat Soul participation), Nov. 18, Dec. 2, Jan. 13, Jan. 25 (Shabbat dinner), Feb. 10, Feb. 23, March 3, March 9, April 14, May 5, May 25, June 2
Tuition: $720 per student
REGISTRATION DEADLINE: September 22, 2018
Register online below!
Having a Bar/Bat/Simchat Mitzvah With Or Shalom
For the 2018-19 year we are pleased to welcome back Harriet Frost to the B’Yachad B’nei Mitzvah classes. Harriet is a wonderful teacher and singer and has taught many children and adults to read from the Torah, and has programmed educational Jewish events for many years in Vancouver.
This page is the introduction to the topic of B’nei Mitzvah. We also provide an online B’nei Mitzvah Manual for your planning. Bar-Bat-Simchat Mitzvah Manual 2017
The Bar/Bat/Simchat Mitzvah Program at Or Shalom is designed to:
- create a warm community of students and parents
- engage students in active learning experiences
- welcome youth into Jewish adulthood with a joyous synagogue ceremony
Group Learning. In the September-June B’yachad (together) program, students preparing for a bar, bat, or simchat mitzvah in the coming year meet for approximately 6-8 Sunday afternoons and 6-8 Shabbat mornings. Together, they get to know one another; learn about deeper meanings of the key ideas in the bar, bat, and mitzvah ceremony; and engage in a significant mitzvah project.
Individual Learning. For 6-12 months prior to the ceremony, students work weekly with a tutor to learn the Torah reading and prayers specific to their ceremony. The Rabbi can connect you with a qualified tutor. About two months before the ceremony, each student meets with the Rabbi for four one-hour sessions to prepare their dvar Torah (speech). A rehearsal takes place approximately one week before the ceremony.
Parent Responsibilities. Parents are asked to (1) meet the financial obligations listed below; (2) on certain days, attend the B’yachad class with their child; (3) arrange for individual tutoring for their child, in consultation with the Or Shalom Rabbi; (4) work with the Rabbi to plan the details of the ceremony; (5) provide a kiddush lunch after the ceremony for all who are attending.
2 year membership in Or Shalom ($980 per year for a one-parent family; $1960 per year for a two-parent family)
- Bar/bat/simchat mitzvah booking fee ($500)
- B’yachad course tuition ($720)
- Refundable security deposit ($200)
- Tutoring fees (payable to the tutor as per their pay scale)
- Building fund contribution ($2500), payable over many years…
Or Shalom seeks to include young Jews to fulfill the mitzvah of a Bar, Bat or Simchat Mitzvah. While the fees above are fixed, Or Shalom offers flexible membership dues.
Payments can be paid through the online registration or should be sent directly to the Or Shalom office. Or Shalom cannot commit to a calendar date until the booking fee is received.
To Proceed. Register HERE, or if you would like more information please contact Rabbi Hannah. She will be happy to answer any questions you may have, and to discuss possible dates for the ceremony at Or Shalom. Children of interfaith families are welcome in the program. Please discuss your individual situation with the Rabbi.