Or Shalom Spiritual Community, Vancouver, B.C.,
Canada In This Issue . . .
The Window to Eternity is Always Open |
Gerry Cuttler (Co-Chair) 925-4569 |
Steve Goldberg (Co-Chair) 222-2276 |
Martha Barker (Secretary) 986-6309 |
Pam Ratner (Treasurer) 224-8049 |
Avi Dolgin (Past Co-Chair) 879-4466 |
Gloria Levi (Ex-Officio) 873-0078 |
Mary Adlersberg |
Vikki Farkas-Mohr |
Debby Fenson |
Penny Gurstein |
Ellen Hamer |
Barry Rabinowitz |
Fran Ritch |
Jack Sniderman |
Sam Znaimer |
[ Back to top ]
From Gloria Levi's president's address during the High Holy Days:
When I first joined Or Shalom, it was a small havurah of approximately 20 to 30 people. We had a budget of $20,000 to $25,000. We were an extended family. Sure, we still had our cliques and in/out groups, but when it came to the fundamentals we were there for each other. We were a family. It was a loving and compassionate and joyful community. Something we are all seeking.
Inevitably, we began to grow. We couldn't say, "You can come in" and "You can't". So we grew, and as we grew, we faced new and unexpected pressures: finding and maintaining an adequate building to house us and allow for the inevitable continued increase in growth. Connecting with new and diverse individuals. Developing new administrative systems and expanding our services. Ensuring effective communication between our members. Moving away from a very participatory ritually engaged community to one less engaged with only a certain number of members actively engaged in leading rituals.
Life is not easy in a family. A family can often become contentious. Some members feel very responsible and take on major tasks. Others feel that their voices are not heard or even understood. Some members are diffident and insecure. Others feel less attachment to the family. There are those who want to feel affirmed and validated by their family. And there are many who, at one time or another, need our help in a variety of ways.
Our challenge was and still is: can we keep the vision and virtues of that loving, compassionate, joyful extended family who took their spiritual life so seriously? Frankly, it is much harder to sustain. In recent years, we have often become preoccupied with financial pressures, with administrative systems, and with policies and procedures.
A certain amount of apathy and inertia has set in where many leave too much of the work to the few.
Being a family means going beyond anger, disappointment, and disillusionment. It means staying power and commitment. But our vision must also include the inevitability of error, mistake, accident, tragedy and even loss.
Or Shalom can still be that extended family, a community that nurtures the soul. We have a chance to build the kind of fellowship within Or Shalom that we would like to see replicated in the broader world.
With all its differences, diversity, and needs we can continue to honor and respect each other and work toward common goals. We need to support our extended family financially, intellectually, and socially. We need your money, your energy, your wisdom and insights. Let's start with tikkun olam right here at Or Shalom, Let us build a family guided by chesed, rachamim, and maasim tovim. We can't leave it to the other guy to do. We need your help. We need you.
[ Back to top ]
Excerpts From Hana Wosk's Yom Kippur talk:
I believe that teshuva, tefillah and tzedaka are important concepts which form a kind of spiritual compass for us on the Jewish path. In teshuva, we are directed to return to our essence, to our soul, to our true nature. Teshuva literally means return. In our tefillah, we are directed to pray---to connect ourselves in a dialogue with the eternal, with God...to reach beyond our selves to another plane of awareness. And with tzedaka, we are directed to be conscious of others -- to act compassionately, justly and with a generous spirit.
Our spiritual work today, and throughout the year is on these three planes: reaching inwardly to our soul, reaching toward the Infinite, and reaching beyond ourselves toward others with tzedaka.
The importance placed on tzedaka makes it clear that our spirituality includes the experience of community. We are all connected. As Rev David taught on Rosh HaShana, there is a unity which pervades all creation. This precept is central to our experience as Jews. In many ways we are taught that we are responsible for one another.
Tzedaka, in Hebrew, has as its root the strong word tzedek, -- justice. It is not translated as charity. It is, more accurately, doing justice. It will often include contributing financially where needed. But it includes more breadth, more subtlety, and more varied means of expression.
I wonder how often we look around us and truly see how much we have been blessed with. When we have our health and energy, do we appreciate how amazing that is, and sense how much we have to offer? Or do we find ourselves so busily engaged in our personal business that we somehow lose our balance and forget our role in creating a just and caring society? I think we forget how much we have to offer. So I'm here to remind myself and all of us, that tzedaka is an important opportunity for tikkun, a corrective, one which we are called to remember and to do on our highest of days.
I hope and pray that we will all be granted clarity and be awakened to the importance of tzedaka. And I wish everyone a wonderful, inspired, and generous New Year!
[ Back to top ]
The Meshugena Ceildh (kay-lee) will be Or Shalom's fundraising party of the year on Saturday, Feb. 28. Party-goers of all ages will dance to the music of Mad Pudding and Kreplakh at the Roundhouse. We are all familiar with our very own high-energy Kreplakh. Mad Pudding is a spirited Vancouver group that combines old-time, Celtic, country and funk music. You can eat good food, schmooze with old and new friends, and pick up something very special through the silent auction. Mark your calendars and tell your friends. If you can help with the planning, advertising, ticket sales, set up, clean up, poster distribution, silent auction organization, food preparation, logistics, and so forth, please call Roma Katz at 264-7544 or Pam Ratner at 224-8049. Please think about volunteering.
[ Back to top ]
For the sin we committed before you . . .
by not reading enough.
by reading too much and not acting on our reading.
by not serving our community.
by serving our community and neglecting ourselves and our families.
by having a narrow point of view and not listening to those who disagree
by listening to others always and not having convictions of our own.
by chasing after material possessions.
by thinking we are unworthy of owning nice things.
by neglecting our dearest friends.
by chasing friends and running away from ourselves.
by saving the world and ignoring our own people
by saving Jews and ignoring the rest of humankind.
by disobeying our parents.
by obeying our parents and suspending our rational mind.
by ignoring our children
by indulging our children.
by letting our anger control us.
by suppressing our rage and righteous indignation.
by foolishness and childishness.
by not laughing enough and not playing enough.
by being selfish.
by not loving ourselves and not caring enough for ourselves.
by ignoring God.
by relying on God instead of ourselves.
by ignoring the past.
by living only in the past.
by saying "We don't make a difference."
by pretending we can save the world.
-- Rabbi Dov Peretz Elkins
from "Moments of Transcendence -- Inspirational Readings for Yom Kippur" edited by Rabbi Dov Peretz Elkins. Read at High Holy Day services by Myrna Rabinowitz
[ Back to top ]
By Lauren Phillips
This week in the Torah we're reading the Noah story. Let me recap it for you. God saw
that humans were doing much evil in the world, and regretted having created them. God
decided to rid the world of humans, land animals, and birds, except for Noah and his
family. Two animals from each species were also to be saved. Noah built the ark and the
flood came. A year later, Noah sent out a bird that came back with an olive branch. Then
the land dried up, so Noah and his family could get off the ark. God then promised not to
destroy the world by flood again.
Practically everybody knows this story. Did you ever wonder why? I think this is such a popular event because it starts off evil, but in the end everything is nice and happy again. Or is it? Take a look in the newspaper. You'll see happy stories and stories of victory. But you'll also see articles about war, abuse, and murder. So why aren't we worried that God will punish us again? Sure, God promised not to destroy the world by flood again, but we all know that there are more ways than one that God can wipe us off the face of the earth. But say God did get rid of all of us. Do you think that would be fair? I don't. It's not like all humans are sinful, at least not in any big way. But how could God single out each and every corrupt person in the world? And where should the line be drawn between plain old wrong that they should be killed for, and sins that can be forgiven? I've thought about these two questions for a long time, and I still haven't come to a conclusion. For example, suppose that someone had really hurt another person, so badly that God killed this wrongdoer. But if God hadn't, there's always the chance they might change and become a good person after all. Maybe that's what God is doing -- giving us humans the chance to change and sort things out. I think that time may have changed a couple of things, but many others are just getting worse every day. My dad has told me how my aunt hitchhiked across Asia a number of years ago. I wouldn't even think about doing anything like that nowadays. Why, my mom says no when I ask to go downtown, even if I'm with a group of friends. At times like that, I feel kind of angry towards the people that cause my parents to think that way. What right do they have to ruin my and many others' freedom?
I'd like to talk about life on the ark. Could you imagine being on an ark for one whole year, with only your spouse, your children and their spouses, with nothing to do but shovel manure and take care of animals? You would be totally isolated, surrounded by endless water. I'm sure you've all heard about the Red River flood and how destructive it was, but the flood that Noah survived was much, much, worse. At the Manitoba flood, people came from all over to offer their strength, support, and help. Maybe if the people in Noah's time did all that, God wouldn't have thought that they were evil. But Noah and his family had no one else.
This is a universal story with many universal themes. Two examples are: rescued in the nick of time. And, the good guys win and the bad guys are punished by God. Not only does this story have many themes, but it has been used to teach so many lessons, including to fear God and God's punishment and never to give up.
Versions of the Noah story appear many times in our culture. When I began preparing this Dvar Torah, I started keeping what I call a "Noah Journal." In it, I recorded appearances of the Noah story in our everyday life. One entry is a comedy routine that Bill Cosby did on the Noah story. It starts off with God talking to Noah, telling him to build an ark. Noah thinks that God is crazy, and doesn't know why he should build an ark, or why he should believe that he actually is talking to God. But in the end, it comes down to Noah building the ark. Why? Because of one of our themes: fear of punishment. God clearly threatens, saying "How long can you tread water?" In Bill Cosby's version, Noah argues with God. But, in the Torah, it doesn't appear that Noah argued with God at all. In fact, Noah did everything exactly as God said. So, if Noah didn't care enough to try to talk God out of killing all those living beings, why was he considered righteous? Scholars have argued over whether or not Noah would have been considered a righteous person in a different generation. He certainly wouldn't have been compared to Abraham, who argued with God to save the people of Sodom and Gemora. No, Noah proved true to his name, meaning easy, or, comfortable. Noah took the easy way out.
The symbols and lessons from the Noah story are all around us. The story teaches us to be prepared to accept the consequences of our actions, to preserve nature, to treat others kindly, and to never give up hope.
[ Back to top ]
By Solomon Rosenberg
The story of Abram is an extremely fascinating one. I will summarize the parsha and
then share some thoughts. The section of the Torah that I chanted from today begins with
God talking to Abram. God tells Abram to leave his land, his birthplace and his father's
house -- Lech Lecha -- and to go to a place that God will show him. God tells Abram
that he will give him a great nation and a guarantee that he will be protected. God also
predicts that all the families of earth will be blessed through him. Abram agrees to go
and Abram, Lot, Sarai and their caravan leave. When they reach Canaan, God appears to
Abram again and tells him that He will give this land to Abram's offspring, and so Abram
builds an
altar there.
Soon, Abram heads south to Egypt because of a famine. There, Abram feared that the Pharaoh would kill him in order to take Sarai, who was very beautiful, as his wife. So he decides to lie to the Pharaoh and tell him that Sarai is his sister. The Pharaoh really likes Sarai and showers Abram with many gifts like sheep, cattle, donkeys and camels.
But the next thing that happens is that God strikes Pharaoh and his palace with terrible plagues because he had taken Sarai as his wife. The Pharaoh asks Abram, "Why did you lie to me?" Then he banishes them from the land of Egypt.
They head north through the Negev until they arrive at the place of the first altar. Because both Abram and Lot had acquired so much wealth -- like sheep and cattle and tents -- the land could not support them all living together. Friction developed between them. Abram suggested that they divide the land instead of having the friction. Lot chose to go in one direction and Abram took the other.
Why is this story in the Torah? Abram is not portrayed as a very strong or trusting person. I think it is included because it shows that no matter how important a person is, he or she is still not perfect and there must be something to learn even from our weaknesses.
When I read this story, I was most interested in the part where Abram lied to the Pharaoh. I wondered why he chose to lie -- especially when he had already been told by God that he would be protected. I believe that Abram lied because he thought it would be the only way to save his life. Maybe because it was the first time that Abram had heard God's voice, he wasn't yet sure if he could totally trust in God since he didn't know Him very well yet. I was wondering if it's OK to lie in order to survive? And if it gets someone else in a lot of trouble -- like it did for the Pharaoh -- is it still OK?
I remember the first time that I lied. It was about knocking over a pail of apples when my mom and I were feeding some horses. I think I was three years old. I got in more trouble than if I had told the truth -- so I think that it's worse to lie. Would Abram have got in more trouble if he had told the truth?
I believe that someone trusts someone more if you know them better and if they don't usually lie. I also believe that we were all taught to not lie but that all of us do it sometimes.
The other part of my portion that caught my attention had to do with wondering what I would do and how I would feel if God told me to leave my home -- Lech Lecha -- and go to a place that I didn't know. I think that I would feel weird and I'd wonder why God wanted me to go. But I'd definitely go. I guess I'd trust God.
When I thought about what I'd need to bring with me, I realized that it would probably take a lot of organization to figure out all the categories -- like clothes and food and tools and sleeping stuff. But I also realized that I'd want to take a clear mind, a good humor and an open heart.
I'd have a clear mind by getting all the things done that I'd have to do so that I didn't leave anything undone. I'd have a good humor if I wasn't touchy or moody or distraught. So I'd need to make sure that I got enough sleep and took care of myself properly. The way that I would have an open heart is by focusing on what is good in each person I meet or what is good in each situation I encounter. I would try to not be jealous or envious or mad at anyone.
I think that I'd be really excited about this new adventure. Actually, even if I didn't prepare anything, I'd still feel ready and prepared!
I wonder if I will know it, if or when God talks to me. Sometimes, when I hear what seems like two different voices in my head, I often choose what seems like the right or unselfish thing to do. I think this is because, in some way, this is what God wants me to do.
[ Back to top ]
By Nurit Fox, Hebrew School Principal
Our students have been hard at work studying Hebrew, Torah, Mitzvot, prayer, history, Israel and our holidays all condensed into only two weekly hours. If you are considering sending your children to Hebrew school, we do accept new students during the year where space allows. Give the school a call at 872-1614 if your children are not yet enrolled and I will be contacting you.
We recently welcomed Chayim Sklar to teach our 6th graders, replacing Robert Edel who retired to dedicate more of his time to his art. Chayim brings to our school his extensive experience in education as well as the love of teaching.
Our older students will be visiting the Holocaust Education centre to view the exhibit "Open Hearts -- Closed Doors," an exhibit that marks the 50th anniversary of the arrival in Canada of 1,123 Jewish children orphaned during the Holocaust. The exhibit chronicles the lives of these children as they emerged from the devastation of the war and forged new lives in Canada.
We are implementing a book club, which is intended to inspire our students to read more Jewish literature. If you have any children's books that you could donate to the school please bring them to the office so we can enrich our library. We also are in need for a donation of a used guitar to accompany our singing. Your help to the school is much appreciated.
Many thanks to Elaine Cuttler whose help in the school is highly regarded. Elaine shared her creative art ideas and techniques with our students and helped them produce beautiful masterpieces.
On our calender for the winter is a family Kabbalat Shabbat service followed by pot-luck dinner Jan. 16 at 6 p.m.
Our school's primary grades will participate in Shabbat morning services on Jan. 31. Our annual Havdalah service and special musical educational evening will take place in January. Watch for notices. All Or Shalom families are invited.
[ Back to top ]
|
|
Acknowledge a birthday, graduation, any auspicious occasion. Celebrate a Bar/Bat Mitzvah,
anniversary, marriage, birth, etc. Honour a Yahrtzeit by donating to any of the following
Or Shalom funds:
Book |
Building |
Education |
General |
Rabbi's |
Torah |
Tzedaka |
In keeping with rabbinic tradition, donors' names will not be published. However, the name of the person being honoured will be acknowledged.
[ Back to top ]
Some members of Or Shalom are able to help you during a difficult time. We could walk the dog, do the laundry, shop for food, bring you a meal, drive you where you need to go or just visit. We are here for you when you need us. Please call. Micha: 877-1208 Alina:732-6631 orshalom@bc.sympatico.ca
The sukkah team poses with their fine creation.
By Geoffrey Katz
To build a sukkah, first of all you need skhakh. So I called up the City of Vancouver Parks and Street Trees Department. A year ago, these guys were very helpful: we got all the skhakh we needed for the Or Shalom sukkah last year and then some -- which I took over to Reb David's. It all came from Stanley Park.
But this year we got a truckload of street tree branches -- plum, all red-purple leaves. We were afraid that they wouldn't last but they did. Anne Daskal and I drove up to Trimble and 41st to collect them. We also picked up some coniferous stuff on the way back to Or Shalom. Motti Ehren-Lis dropped off a few branches, too.
Second, you need people. We announced the sukkah-building during shabbat between Rosh HaShana and Yom Kippur, at the Yom Kippur Break Fast, and I also had put a message on the OrShNet. So on the Sunday after Yom Kippur, I got there in time to begin to lay out the structure ahead of everyone arriving.
I wanted to try out a slightly different structural framing than we built last year: I wanted to test a design for a simple structure that would go together like Lego, which wouldn't need construction or design expertise to put up and take down. That way, in future years, others could take on the building of the sukkah where they otherwise might not. Building a sukkah is a very special experience. It's like you get to build Judaism, get to manifest it in wood and branches and cloth. And after all the deep spiritual davenning of Yom Kippur, it is good to reconnect with these materials which are also haShem.
People began arriving eager to work. The only hitch was: I forgot to purchase nails. So one person went off to Revy. When he came back, things got going in earnest. The sukkah went up so smoothly, like a hot knife in butter. Everyone worked together. Two or three people each assembled one of the three post-and-beam assemblies. Then while some lifted two and held them up, others connected them with horizontal pieces. Then the third assembly was lifted up and we hammered that in. Lots of triangular bracing. Then rafter joists to carry the skhakh, then we launched the skhakh up, up and over onto what became the roof. We took pictures, you can see for yourself.
We used blue tarps for the walls because we couldn't find the faux-burlap we used last year. We also stapled in on the inside the wall hangings we used last year. Nurit and the schoolchildren made and hung decorations.
The next step, of course, is to enjoy the sukkah. The mitzvah is lashev basukkah -- to sit in the sukkah. And lots of people did, during the week and especially on the shabbat during Sukkot.
It is an important step to take down the sukkah. But you're not just bashing it up and tossing out the stuff. The sukkah is carefully dismantled (as carefully as you might, given that it is structural timber), all the nails removed, and stored dry for next year under the ramp at the back of the bayit. The skhakh we bundled up to put out for garbage pickup. It would be great if we could get it delivered back to the City where they could mulch it up.
What was different about dismantling the sukkah this year was that we did it in the pouring rain. Shona and I got there mistakenly an hour early because of the change back to Standard Time. We were completely soaked by the time that Michael Smus, Alan Posthuma and Marianne S. arrived. Reinforcements! So we finished dismantling.
Taking down the sukkah is the end of the High Holy Days. At the end, haShem calls you to pay attention to hol, to common things.
[ Back to top ]
Thanks to all of you who have sent in your membership declaration forms. We are well on
our way to compiling an up-to-date membership list, which will be sent to all members in
January. For those of you who have forgotten to do so, don't fret. You will be receiving a
phone call to gently nudge you into completing the declaration form. In case you are not
sure what we are referring to, here is a brief explanation: the membership committee is in
the process of formalizing our membership and has asked all members and friends to declare
their intention regarding membership status and also to consider making the strongest
financial commitment possible to ensure our community's stability. Please feel free to
call us if you have any questions or suggestions. -- Sally Thorne (733-0584 or
Salthorne@aol.com)
Ruth Hershler (224-3070 or hershler@sfu.ca)
Diana and Dragan Koprivica, beloved friends of Nada and Zadik Danon and their children
from Mostar, will finally be arriving in Vancouver from Germany in the next month or so.
They are Bosnian refugees who have been living in Germany since war broke out in the
former Yugoslavia and are being expelled from Germany now that the shooting is over in
Bosnia. Or Shalom is providing legal sponsorship for this couple, although the bulk of the
costs of their absorption will be provided by the Danon family. Please call me (875-1781)
if you have some or all of the things that this couple will need to get started here. Some
ideas are furniture, kitchen dishes, pots and pans, TV, alarm clock, blankets, sheets,
etc. I will be able to store these items for them until they arrive. Thank you in advance
for searching through your homes. -- Michal Mivasair
Some of you may have noticed the new plants in the garden bed on 10th Avenue in front of the shul. My husband Michael Barkusky and and I have purchased the plants and provided the labour for these low-maintenance evergreen shrubs, which will eventually grow and fill up the entire bed. We would like to recoup some of our costs, so I am offering gardening advice to anyone who could then donate a $20 bill (or more at their option) towards the cost of the plants. We understand that any donations would qualify for a tax receipt by Or Shalom. So if you wish to contribute in a financial way to the Or Shalom garden, you can get some free gardening advice at the same time. Please give me a call at 874-4118 if you want to talk about your garden. -- Celia Brauer
Our community has grown to 267 adults. There are occasional times when we need to
inform folks of important or urgent events in a hurry. Thus we have a phone tree system to
call everyone. We need a few more callers to ease the load on the current volunteers.
Would you be willing to help us out? It would mean calling no more than 10 people very
occasionally. We also need a few back-up callers in case we are unable to reach the
front-line callers. If you are willing, please call or f'e-mail me: 736-4110, and
friedom@istar.ca.
-- Carol Ann Fried
Published six times a year by the Or Shalom Jewish Spiritual Community, 710 East 10th Ave., Vancouver, B.C., Canada V5T 2A7. Tel: (604) 872-1614 Fax: 872-4406. E-mail: orshalom@bc.sympatico.ca. February/March Issue Deadline -- 3 p.m., Thursday, Jan. 15, 1998. Please save files on disk as plain text or send e-mail. © The authors, 1997
Editor: Lorne Mallin, lmallin@smartt.com
Proofreader: Azima Buell
Contributors
| Helen Aqua | Avi Dolgin | Geoffrey Katz | Michal Mivasair | Kymn Ryant |
| Martha Barker | Nurit Fox | Roma Katz | Lauren Phillips | Frank Segal |
| Celia Brauer | Steve Goldberg | Gloria Levi | Myrna Rabinowitz | Hal Siden |
| Azima Buell | Anne Gorsuch | Perry Millar | Pam Ratner | Sally Thorne |
| Gerry Cuttler | Ruth Hershler | David Mivasair | Solomon Rosenberg | Hana Wosk |
[ Back to top ]